While many couples dream of big weddings, others prefer to go a quieter, more intimate route and elope. But is eloping a realistic option? You bet.
When we talk about eloping, we don't mean you and your partner in a Vegas chapel with an Elvis impersonator as a witness (but if that's your preference, you do you). We're referring to a simple, intimate ceremony that focuses on the two of you. Here are some great reasons to elope.
Less family drama
All too often, getting married means appeasing two different families with endless opinions and long lists of demands. It's enough to make you want to, well, elope!
We all have difficult relatives, and some families mix like oil and water when you get them in the same room. But difficult relatives aren't the only thing to consider. Maybe you have a huge family and you're worried about who you should invite. If the thought of accommodating a large number of varied personalities overwhelms you, eloping is a great way to escape all that needless stress.
Save money
It's no secret that weddings are expensive. Eloping, on the other hand, is a much more affordable option.
But how much does it cost to elope? Couples usually spend from $5,000 to $15,000, far less than the $33,000 national average for a traditional wedding. These savings can go toward a house, a car or a bigger ring (wink, wink). Eloping allows you to save money for what really matters: your future together.
More intimacy and authenticity
A big wedding is a production with countless considerations. You'll be tied up with strict timelines, growing to-do lists and differing opinions.
It's natural for couples to feel overwhelmed in the days leading up to their wedding. Instead of becoming immersed in the moment, they may feel like they are performing for a crowd.
Eloping is an intimate, private affair that reduces the noise, so you can entirely focus on that beautiful moment when you both say, “I do.”
Less stress and anxiety
When you start planning a wedding, you will quickly see how much money, time, stress and questions are involved. You'll have to decide on a bridal party, who should have plus-ones, the cost per plate, the cost of a DJ vs. a band…all that decision-making can quickly turn from fun to stressful.
If you find yourself dreading the idea of planning your wedding, it may be time to consider eloping.
Celebrate later
Whether you're looking to skip the planning headaches or manage your budget, eloping doesn't have to mean missing out on the party. You have a lifetime to celebrate your marriage, and opportunities will always be available as you grow together. Consider throwing a big party for friends and family on your first wedding anniversary to celebrate with the people who weren't able to be there on your wedding day. It can be as simple as a backyard barbecue or dinner at your favorite restaurant.
Your wedding can be 100% you
Weddings shouldn't be about people pleasing. Thankfully, when you elope, you only have to please yourself, which can be very freeing. Your friends and family will eventually understand, and you'll save a lot of time, stress and money.
Starting to sound like an appealing option? We can help make it a reality. Get Hitched at Helzberg and let us make your big day an intimate, stress-free affair.
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